Okay I am going to vent.

Anthony · May 21, 2017

Just read an article, where some folk took on the responsibility of a 1 year old from an orphanage.

He arrived, was conditioned to orphanage life.
Could only sleep when alone, didn't know how to play and had no
close ties with another human.

They had a young son and the little one adapted to having a brother.

After some time the child adapted and was loved.

Then the woman got pregnant, and they sent the child back.

Lots of tears, but they sent the child back with all the toys they bought for him.

Seems they wanted their own, and the substitute wasn't good enough, nor could they
share.

So you show the child love, being human and then reject.

You end the article with, -------"now the little one will have hope ",.........???????????

PISS ME OFF!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, to be shown a normal life and then dumped.......................

ARRGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would not do my worst enemy that.
There is a special hell for those type of people.
Anthony -------- sitting in the fridge on a block of ice.

M. Frary · May 21, 2017

I agree.
That couple need to have their asses removed.
That's a horrible thing to do to someone..
Hopefully there is a special hell for those people but I think they should be punished for something like that in this lifetime.

my nellie · May 21, 2017

There are no words to describe such deeds and people... The term "humans" is improperly used for them...

Cadillactaste · May 21, 2017

I can't put into words...the depth of how this reaches my inner soul...and it grieves for that child. I can only pray that his story gets out...and that this nightmare becomes a blessing in the door that opens to him. Unconditional love finds him beyond measure...that it can't be measured in words but only felt deep in his inner being...and he will know his self worth...and in time will grasp that it was never him. But, through it all...sees what a blessing they offered in his finding the one true home who loves him beyond measure.

We are not to judge...but we don't have to like the sin. I pray that judgement finds them for the turmoil they surely placed on this innocent child...child...to cherish and love unconditionally. Not a pet they tire of. I half feel sorry for their biological child who is stuck with this mind set and mentality of parents they were not able to choose for themselves. That their lives are not in some way scared by their parents mentality.

my nellie · May 21, 2017

Cadillactaste said:
... ...I half feel sorry for their biological child who is stuck with this mind set and mentality of parents they were not able to choose for themselves... ...

That's correct!
But let's hope that while they are growing up they will encounter other kind of people and they will differentiate themselves from their parents' behavior...

Cadillactaste · May 21, 2017

my nellie said:
That's correct!
But let's hope that while they are growing up they will encounter other kind of people and they will differentiate themselves from their parents' behavior...

It can happen...my half brother bless his heart changed his last name so his child would not carry his father's last name. But now carries my mother's maiden name. You can say...he looked into a place in his childhood and knew...he would make a better life for his own child. But did not wish the dark cloud of that time to carry into it...by erasing the last name...and connections that took him to a dark place in his childhood. He is not his father's son. He is an amazing father. I am proud of the young man he became...in spite of where he came. It's all we can hope for and pray for innocent children who have no choice.

But, my grandma always said...worst scenario...if you look hard enough...something good comes from it. I would like to think this child who was returned...will find parents that are a dream...and he lives his life in unconditional love. And see the blessing of his finding his way into their home. As they as well...see the blessing in having him part of their lives. I pray only good comes from this. In all aspects of the innocent children involved.

my nellie · May 21, 2017

Cadillactaste said:
... ...But, my grandma always said...worst scenario...if you look hard enough...something good comes from it.
This is so very true!
Greek stoic philosophers said the known adage : "not a bad thing immiscible of a good one"
I pray only good comes from this. In all aspects of the innocent children involved.
It's the best we can do, Darlene. Always!

Dav4 · May 21, 2017

I couldn't do that to a cat or a dog, never mind a child...

Bonsai Nut · May 21, 2017

Anthony said:
I would not do my worst enemy that.

As horrible as it sounds, it may be a blessing. I can't imagine what it would be like growing up with such heartless people as your parents. You would never stop wondering when the rug was about to be pulled out from under you.

quietobserver · May 21, 2017

Bonsai Nut said:
As horrible as it sounds, it may be a blessing. I can't imagine what it would be like growing up with such heartless people as your parents. You would never stop wondering when the rug was about to be pulled out from under you.

No kidding. Poor kid will find a better home than that duo of douche nozzles for sure.

my nellie · May 22, 2017

Bonsai Nut said:
As horrible as it sounds, it may be a blessing. I can't imagine what it would be like growing up with such heartless people as your parents. You would never stop wondering when the rug was about to be pulled out from under you.

On the other hand..., yes you're right it may..., especially if we continue into the context of what we were talking with Darlene..., yes I wish, I hope it will be a blessing behind this horrible experience...
Like @Dav4 said one cannot even imagine doing this to an animal!

just.wing.it · May 22, 2017

Wow.....
I am adopted....
My parents thought that they couldn't get pregnant, so the picked me up off the clearance shelf.
Then they got pregnant, 3 times.
So I have 3 younger brothers who are all biologically related to my parents, and I'm the only one who is adopted....

It's hard to understand/believe how that could happen.....very sad.
What country was that story from @Anthony?

Anthony · May 22, 2017

Just.wing.it,

it's from down here. I called no names because I was afraid it would go viral / Fakebook and
I was upset, but didn't want to crucify anyone.
It hit close to home. I have had to watch something similar for roughly the last 5 years and it is still being fixed.

Bnut,

most sensible response for me. I can get very emotional and often need to detach to see sense.
Thank you.
Good Day
Anthony

sorce · May 22, 2017

IMO...that's worse than Abortion.

I'm pro-choice....
Because the pro-life people, rather than using their resources and energy to provide for these types of children...
They make pipe bombs and kill more people at the clinic.

I'm pro-gay too. Peep my Avatar! Earth needs worms, they both get pregnant.
Earth don't need more humans, nature makes it so they can't reproduce.

So here they are....as my fishing buddy's sister and wife are, loving people, ready to raise an orphaned child of any sex, color, background, etc.....

And they get stuck in a "morals" battle while a child goes without love. Stupid.

Then, when they finally get him, sometime later, the biodad is getting out of prison for dealing drugs, and wants the kid back.
So if they lose him...they will never get him back, even if biodad goes back to jail. (Hopefully not for the kids sake)

Far as I know they still have him, I met him and his little preemie adopted sister, who was less than a year old crack baby, but so strong! So beautiful!

Lotta old Italian in their family.

So you know they are getting confronted with their own "moral" battle. Time to explore how real the reasons are for any hatred.
Black and Gay and your family!

These are the things that make LOVE shine!

I believe that children are our future. Teach them well and let them lead the way. Show them all the beauty they possess inside. Whitney Houston
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Sorce

Okay I am going to vent.

Anthony

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