Hey man..I was that guy who could find nothing locally myself either. I know how that feels. It seems like many of the products we all like are super similar but go by so many different proprietary names that they are hard to find while being right under your nose.
Case in point...I had been trying to find local pumice or lava and was having terrible luck. I went to a nursery a couple of hours from home and found some expanded slate marketed under a brand name that I can't recall right off hand. I bought it, brought it home, and took a sample to my local farm store. I used to play in a band with the owner so I know him pretty well and he had some time to talk. I showed him what I had been scouring the earth for (or anything similar that we could use) and he said "Oh hell man I will have that for you in a couple days". Long story short, he found it listed under "Permatill" and now I have a quick and easy source for that, turface, and he is trying to locate some pumice for me.
I would recommend buying what you like, even if its the smallest bag you can find, and then take it around to some gardening centers, farm stores, etc. and show it to them. They may not know bonsai, but they know their products and can usually find something close enough that you can try/research for your own blend.
Just my 2 cents. Good luck!!