Yes, the scale only works in our brain because we have nothing to compare something to. When you have two things next to each other, our brains go to shit trying to choose which one is proper scale. When there is just one kind of leaf we accept that we are looking at a small forest even though a
Japanese Maple forest leaf in a bonsai can only be taken down to some size, which if you scaled it out, you would see that the leaf in the bonsai would about a foot in diameter compared to the trunks of the trees. We don't scale it out when just looking at one kind, we just accept it. When you have two, you have to choose.
Flowering groups don't work either because no matter how hard you try the bastards will not bloom at the same time. You'll have one in bloom and some in a dozen stages of bud, some past glory and it just never works the way a florist's display works in a garden show where they place stuff in some lovely pattern. They have a warehouse full of potted individuals from which to pick only the cooperative constituents and jam them together whether it kills them or not. They can change them out daily, too. All Cedars will work great because they have small needles to start with. Go to it!