I just received my first ever bonsai as a gift from my husband on Valentine's day. The instructions that came with it said to soak the pot and humidity tray in about 2 in of water every other day for about 5 minutes, and that is what I've been doing. The soil is very moist and hasn't felt dry since I received it. I have had it sitting near a SE facing window where it gets plenty of afternoon sun. I began misting the leaves as soon as I noticed the drying but it has only gotten worse!!! I also noticed black spots on the leaves the day I received it, but no webbing anywhere. Also, some of the smaller buds on the plant are turning completely black. What can I do to help this plant survive and what could I be doing wrong? It is of the utmost importance to me that I keep this plant alive and healthy! Thanks for your help!!!!