I took a grafting class years ago, at a commercial nursery, orientated toward landscape material, not bonsai focused. This nursery was grafting a select cultivar of Carpinus carolina onto seedling C. carolina. They emphasized that success rate is low unless heat and humidity were applied. Of course this was Wisconsin, where an average summer is often cooler than a Texas winter. Point being, summer grafts done late July or early August were put into a poly house and kept above 70 F, with mist applied every 15 minutes. This treatment gave them a good (better than 70%) take rate.
Without the constant 90+% humidity and heat, they said success of hornbeam grafts was less than 10%.
Apples needed no extra protection, no extra humidity or heat - they took, and even for my first time all my apple grafts took.
So judging by what I saw - yes hornbeam can be grafted, and no - I wouldn't recommend it unless you had a commercial grade set up for the after care.