Fidur
Chumono
Normally I walk between my benches, looking for pests or irregularities, thinking what I should do in the future with each tree, what to prune, what to wire, what to change the style...
And suddenly without programming it, and even at night, I feel the need to make one of those changes. And the worst thing is that once I make a small change, I compulsively start making all the changes that I had thought of in all the trees and even some operations that I had not thought of before. I act feverishly on 5 or 10 of my trees, feeling a kind of possession in which I cannot control myself. While I'm doing it, I insult myself and tell myself to stop and think, but I can't control it... When I finally manage to stop, I feel bad, because I do things that I hadn't thought of doing and I even have to rectify some in later days.
I hate these pointless starts, and I tell myself this can't happen again. So, I spend weeks holding back from making modifications, and I go back to a calmer stage...which inevitably leads to another compulsive acting...
Also in the nurseries, I can go looking for good candidates, and even though I find them, I hold back. But one fine day, I go crazy and buy 2 or 3 that I had already seen and discarded (because I have too many trees to attend to).
I really want to change this behaviour....it reminds me of that in drugs addicts.
Anyone has experienced this or have a good trick to avoid it?
And suddenly without programming it, and even at night, I feel the need to make one of those changes. And the worst thing is that once I make a small change, I compulsively start making all the changes that I had thought of in all the trees and even some operations that I had not thought of before. I act feverishly on 5 or 10 of my trees, feeling a kind of possession in which I cannot control myself. While I'm doing it, I insult myself and tell myself to stop and think, but I can't control it... When I finally manage to stop, I feel bad, because I do things that I hadn't thought of doing and I even have to rectify some in later days.
I hate these pointless starts, and I tell myself this can't happen again. So, I spend weeks holding back from making modifications, and I go back to a calmer stage...which inevitably leads to another compulsive acting...
Also in the nurseries, I can go looking for good candidates, and even though I find them, I hold back. But one fine day, I go crazy and buy 2 or 3 that I had already seen and discarded (because I have too many trees to attend to).
I really want to change this behaviour....it reminds me of that in drugs addicts.
Anyone has experienced this or have a good trick to avoid it?