A spouse may be a bigger problem
I used to grow cacti a long time ago, and for that reason I kept windows open all winter long with temperatures much, much below freezing. Because cacti needed that in order to bloom.
When my future wife moved in all plants went to the refrigerator for a season, and then disappeared all together the very next year
Because a fridge was needed to keep food all of the sudden.
She was convincing that woman, still is, LOL