Growing bigger is the least of your problems. You are growing this indoors, I'm not sure if that is a problem or not, you need to say exactly which species this is. There are a lot of willows, the Black Willow is most common in MI, and
@Leo in N E Illinois can tell us if the Weeping Willow I see is native to MI. They are all weedy and will grow from the logs of a chopped down one if you take too long to take the wood away. I've heard that you can root a cutting as big as you can stomach, so I were you, I'd look for an unguarded specimen an acquire a cutting with my bow saw. Grow it like BC in highly organic wet soil, essentially thick mud in full sun. Then I'd strive to grow your babies as small and delicate as practical. With a
@Walter Pall sized tree the arches should be easier to start.
See this thread. The problems with the lights & heat are one more reason to grow these as hardy, and I suspect that the growth you'd get just growing in summer and resting in winter would be as good or better than growing year around. My year around trees do not really achieve significant growth in the house or greenhouse and if I could I would not do it. The problem with that is the rest period is satisfied as least 2 months too soon and they grow in the dark and lose all their leaves, and do it again, and that's not productive either. But I digress. If you want something to fool around with in winter buy a fig.