Main Entry: sar·casm
Pronunciation: \ˈsär-ˌka-zəm\
Function: noun
Etymology: French or Late Latin; French sarcasme, from Late Latin sarcasmos, from Greek sarkasmos, from sarkazein to tear flesh, bite the lips in rage, sneer, from sark-, sarx flesh; probably akin to Avestan thwarəs- to cut
Date: 1550
1 : a sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain
2 a : a mode of satirical wit depending for its effect on bitter, caustic, and often ironic language that is usually directed against an individual b : the use or language of sarcasm
Not sure how there's much difference between an insult and sarcasm... but I am something of a literalist, so I'll ask you to forgive me if your words did not communicate a lightness of heart that you may have intended. As much as one might despise them, the use of emoticons can assist in interperting the intention of the speaker...
I did not use any in my response either, but my use of language was designed to convey that I had no irritation with you, but that we would disagree. Your response back to Attila appeared to reinforce the perception that you were being unkind rather than attempting to be amusing. Implying by my interpertation, that his trees were a mess and that he lacked discipline. From that standpoint I think you can understand that I would have to respond to that in a way which would be kind but also direct.
I hope you realize I still have no bone to pick with you... and that I accept your belated statement of intention as your only purpose.
This is the joy of pure unfiltered communication. What you say will be read and interperted based only on the filters available to the reader. Without body language or tone of voice to provide clarity, only the crafting of words (which can be more powerfully enforced by what you leave out than what you actually write) can paint the picture of your intentions.
Such is the life of internet communications....
I'll let you in on a little clue though... I never ever use the words "Kindest regards" with anyone I'm actually vexed with. It is improper to write "With no regards whatsoever"...lol Though I have done it once. It is best to have no closing salutation at all in those cases, so that is my general rule. So if you read something from me and you believe I'm offended, just read the salutation, and then re-read the body of the message. I rarely fail to speak my intentions....
Again, kindest regards...
Victrinia