Welcome the world of overwintering

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This isn't a small problem...
You plants aren't confused. They're showing they have completed their cold cycle requirements. Each species has a genetically-coded time they have to remain dormant for the winter. Dormancy is broken BY SOIL TEMPERATURE. The warmer the soil, the faster they will grow. Cool the soil down and they will slow down or stop until the soil gets warmer.
The good news is that as long as the buds are tight (even if they're elongating and showing green) they're not vulenerable to freezing or frost. Buds can take a long time to burst, but the warmer the temps, the faster they move.
The bad news is that temperate zone trees lose almost all of their cold hardiness at the roots after buds have burst and leaves have begun. Once buds have burst (showing discernable lead edges) a hard freeze that freezes the entire root mass after bud burst will kill many, if not, most species. You can also lose significant branching or big sections of trunks. This is highly species-related, some are more tolerant of the ups and downs of winter than others. You might consult with local bonsaiists about what species can do what...
Best thing to do is get them into a shady place and preferably sink them into the ground--the ground acts as a giant buffer and it takes a lot longer for it to warm up than a pot full of soil. The colder the better. You might even think of icing them down...
If you can't stop them from pushing and you get leaves, you will have to find a frost free environment to get them through the winter.
Keep your fingers crossed and pray for colder weather.