in a recent mirai podcast they were discussing the peculiar nature of critique in the world of bonsai. People tend to freely share “what i would do” with a tree, even in the presence of, if not directly to, the owner whose heart went into the tree
there are pros and cons to that
Everybody in bonsai has at some point received advice or an interpretation of their tree that they didn’t ask for. Not everybody is as welcoming to this. But my point is that we in the bonsai world are accustomed to patiently reading/listening to the views of others, even those that we don’t necessarily agree with
If somebody can’t listen to somebody’s well-intended and thoughtfully expressed view and give them the benefit of the doubt about where that view is coming from, well that person probably has bigger issues than his or her crossing roots
I would open the convo along the lines suggested above by
@Brian Van Fleet