Ouch. Here are 2 quick stories from years ago:
1. A club member came to my house to see the trees one day, and she started picking bark off the trunk of this very old Japanese White Pine. I actually had to say, “Hey, what are you doing, stop that! Don’t pick the bark off”. I couldn’t believe the ignorance, lack of consideration, or whatver she was missing that didn’t stop her. A grown up. She hasn’t been back.
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2. I was doing a demo at a meeting in a small group about plucking the center bud out of this maple tree in the early spring. Another very old member (now dead) interrupted and started showing everyone how you really do it, on my tree. I asked him nicely several times not to touch my tree. He wasn’t steady-handed anymore, and was actually tearing off the entire shoot, and not really paying attention to bud removal at the right phase like you need to. He didn’t stop until I finally said, “knock it off old man!” Well that embarrassed him, and after the meeting he caught me carrying things out to my car on the loading dock, and he poked me in the chest with his umbrella, and said if “I ever called him any old man again he would kick my f@#$ing a$$”. My instinct was to hit him with a really fast right cross and knock him out. Somehow, instead, I pushed his umbrella out of the way and laughed and said, “No, we are done here. Go home (name).” He eventually apologized.
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