Wise words from our wise friend Mr. Walston.
http://bonsainurseryman.typepad.com/bonsainurseryman/2009/02/bonsai-forums-self-destruct.html
So Brent, I am open ears. You imply "the nuts are running the show". No, I do not believe everything I read but when something written is swayed to the point it is rediculous and untrue, do we not need to express the other side of the story?
No one has an
obligation to state their case. I sometimes do, and did so in this thread on the title subject. In the other myth threads, I have stated my case in previous threads and am unpersuaded by what I have read since then. In a polite, intelligent, and respectful discussion, I might had added further comments. But when the house is burning down, I don't try to tell the fireman how to improve his 401K holdings. This is expounded upon fully in the link above. When the message is about the topic, intelligent arguments can be made and conclusions drawn by all. That's not what's going on here (although it started out that way). No, what's going on here is ego, character assassination, and the desire to always have the last word without regard to intelligence or truth.
I don't have a problem with that; I like a good car wreck or house fire as much as anyone else, I just don't expect much rational discussion to come from it, and most attempts to have a rational discussion at such a scene are fruitless.
Do we just shake or heads and say to ourselves "I can't believe I just read that" and walk away hoping nobody takes it for real. To me that's leaving the scene of an accident.
When the
real subject is ego, character assassination, and the unfettered desire to have the last word, then yes, the best thing to do is leave the scene of the accident and let the authorities clean it up. In this forum, the authorities are weak to non existent. I don't have a problem with that, it's good entertainment at most times, and on rare occasions an intelligent discussion takes place as occurred early in this thread, although that is pretty much lost now.
If you think the complete story should be offered to the public then I am going to give it my best to show the complete story.
I don't mean this to be rude or disrespectful, but the manner in which you present your arguments is damaging to your credibility. I think you need to take a long hard look at exactly what you are doing here and who you think you are winning over by acting is such a fashion. By the way, this applies to several others here, so please don't think I am singling you out.
We critique bonsai often, why can't we critique written material?
We critique written material all the time. I have probably written more than five thousand comprehensive posts since 1996 when I started posting to forums. In that entire time, I have never deliberately belittled, ridiculed, or condemned anyone responding to my posts. On the very rare occasion where it has happened by accident or by a poor choice of words, I have apologized as I did to you earlier in this thread.
I have probably done more critique of bonsai horticultural practices than any other person alive, and I have managed to do it without exhibiting any of the shameful behavior that is taken for granted here.
Brent
EvergreenGardenworks.com
see my blog at
http://BonsaiNurseryman.typepad.com