So I am struggling lately with the broken bond to one of my favorite trees. My “twisty sister” of a Deshojo is currently in a grow box doing the nebari dance. Recently I got some new neighbors who must have looked over the fence and mistaken her for some sort of exotic cultivar of another species with similar shaped leaves. (Idiots)
About a month or two ago they jumped my fence twice in the middle of the night to come and explore my garden and come and rip at this tree which was up on my secure “catio” and leave things in a mess. They haven’t returned since caught, videoed and police. But my sanctuary feels violated. I love spending time outside with my trees in the summer but now I find myself only going out to water/prune and no longer sit with them. What’s more every time I look at that maple I am reminded of the intrusion and don’t feel any joy about working on her.
I know it sounds stupid to some but it’s amazing the effect a complete imbecile can have on another’s happiness and security. Just needed to vent.
About a month or two ago they jumped my fence twice in the middle of the night to come and explore my garden and come and rip at this tree which was up on my secure “catio” and leave things in a mess. They haven’t returned since caught, videoed and police. But my sanctuary feels violated. I love spending time outside with my trees in the summer but now I find myself only going out to water/prune and no longer sit with them. What’s more every time I look at that maple I am reminded of the intrusion and don’t feel any joy about working on her.
I know it sounds stupid to some but it’s amazing the effect a complete imbecile can have on another’s happiness and security. Just needed to vent.