Ryan,
Let me make this simple for you.
1) Your claim may have been legally actionable as libel, depending on circumstances. I asked for clarification of those circumstances.
Ryan's statement's, even if construed in the most negative way, was hardly libelous. Relating actual experiences never has been.
2) Pointing that out, as I did, is not legally actionable.
Of coarse its not! Giving feedback on a retail experience is part of the game. Its worked well for Ebay and is accepted as the norm.
Now we learn that Steve not only gave you an honest answer, but he changed his website in accord with your whining. As for homework, I went to the website and saw the changes he made in response to your whining. It's not quite clear to me how you think I could have looked up how his website looked before you wrote him.
I consider Steve to be a friend; he is also a great resource to the bonsai community. If you come on here and try to drag his name through the mud because he didn't go to the lengths you wanted him to in order to pursue your business, before you ever initiated a commercial transaction --- well, you're going to get called on it.
Ryan hardly whined, he related an experience. It wasn't till after the experience that the changes were made. This should be viewed as a positive not a negative. Sometimes keeping current with an online business can be tough, especially if you do it part time. Customers are key to helping vendors with their websites with suggestions and critique. What I don't get is if your such a good friend to Steve, why is it that you were unaware of his site prior to the change.
When people talk trash about my friends, I respond. When the accusations appear as though they may be unfair, I respond all the more so. If that makes me a bad person in your eyes, I'm happy to be seen as such.
I applaud your loyalty to your friend, it is admirable. However, its still Ryan's right (or anyone's) to relate their experience from beginning to end if they so chose. Its the rest of the communities responsibility to weigh the statement for worth.
--rw
/darn it, now I sound like Will Heath. Maybe you win after all.