so far in my life i've only attended one bonsai society meeting. it was a while ago and i brought one of my phorobanas. there was some interest, but i could tell it was mostly polite. before and after the meeting the members formed small groups to chat and catch up. imagine if i had stood close enough to one of these groups so that i could eavesdrop on their discussion, which turned out to be about putting mandarins, grapes, raisins, and cranberries into salads, not fruit salads but lettuce salads. personally, i am deeply offended by the thought of anybody putting sweet fruit (as opposed to tomatoes and avocados) into lettuce salads. in this case what would be the right thing to do? obviously the right thing to do would be to call the president of the club over to stop the discussion.
in reality, asking the president to stop a conversation between grown adults would be the really wrong thing to do. and it would be even more wrong if the president actually did it. the right thing for me to do would be to simply step a few feet away so that i stopped hearing the offensive conversation.
personally i've attended countless plant society meetings and not once has the leader ever been asked to stop a conversation between grown adults. yet on plant forums it's a completely different story. "hey mod, this topic is offensive. please lock it, better yet delete." "ok, i'll do that right away, because i really don't want anyone to be offended."
a long time ago socrates was put on trial for filling young people's heads with offensive ideas. there were a few hundred jurors, the majority of which voted for him to be killed. ain't democracy great? you can get what you want for free. in a market, on the other hand, if you want somebody dead you either have to do it yourself or pay someone else to do it.
not too long ago i was permanently banned from the dendroboard for "trolling". everything i wrote about the benefits of hybridization was 100% sincere and backed by science. but it offended the majority of the members so i was voted off the island. they got rid of me for free.
fact is, nobody is truly better off when group decisions are made by democracy or dictators. all group decisions should be made by donations. this is something i've said before, and i'll say it again. if this offends you then please don't do the wrong thing. do the right thing and just step away from my threads. if, on the other hand, anyone wants to civilly disagree and discuss then they are more than welcome to.
in reality, asking the president to stop a conversation between grown adults would be the really wrong thing to do. and it would be even more wrong if the president actually did it. the right thing for me to do would be to simply step a few feet away so that i stopped hearing the offensive conversation.
personally i've attended countless plant society meetings and not once has the leader ever been asked to stop a conversation between grown adults. yet on plant forums it's a completely different story. "hey mod, this topic is offensive. please lock it, better yet delete." "ok, i'll do that right away, because i really don't want anyone to be offended."
a long time ago socrates was put on trial for filling young people's heads with offensive ideas. there were a few hundred jurors, the majority of which voted for him to be killed. ain't democracy great? you can get what you want for free. in a market, on the other hand, if you want somebody dead you either have to do it yourself or pay someone else to do it.
not too long ago i was permanently banned from the dendroboard for "trolling". everything i wrote about the benefits of hybridization was 100% sincere and backed by science. but it offended the majority of the members so i was voted off the island. they got rid of me for free.
fact is, nobody is truly better off when group decisions are made by democracy or dictators. all group decisions should be made by donations. this is something i've said before, and i'll say it again. if this offends you then please don't do the wrong thing. do the right thing and just step away from my threads. if, on the other hand, anyone wants to civilly disagree and discuss then they are more than welcome to.