Thanks!!!!. You give me strengh!.....yes , the second best thing to practice bonsai, is that there are beautiful people that support you, and "know" exactly what you feel when your trees are sick.
I think I will use this thread to find out, wich of my species are phytophtora desease free.
Today, I could sadly find out, that absolutely all my conifers are affected . (chamaecyparis, pines, junipers, cryptomerias, dawn redwoods, taxus, arborvitae,....). Some of them are yet only very slightly damaged, but I've learned it's a matter of time that they all will die. So I guess, there is no conifer in my future....

....those were my first target when I begun.
I still have doubts about my azaleas, chinese elms, acer, cuphea, malus ....
Good news is that some species seem resistant for now (wich means they have been close enough to deseased plants, long enough under the same circunstances to have been infected, but hadn´t). Edit; As I applied a fosetil systemic fungicide in the early stages to all my trees, maybe they were effectivly protected, but not resistant
bouganvilles (None of my 5 is affected)
leptospermum scoparium (4 unaffected)
coprosma kirkii (3 unaffected)
zanthoxilum ( 2 unaffected)
schinus therbenthifolius
pyracantha (3 unaffected)
adenium
portulacarias
calliandra brevipes
callistemon
argyranthemum
myrtle communis
ficus (microcarpa, benjamina and tiger bark)
sageretia thezans
tamarindus indica
albizia julibrissin
fulkien tea
tecoma capensis
I will update this list (to erase some now suitable species)
If I add new species to my collection (hard right now and in short term) they will probably be tropicals, as they seem not so prone to phytophtora.
Again, thanks to all the people that commented in this thread.