I respect your stance.
Truth is, I respect the fact you love someone and they (and however many in-laws ((that's the Google correct so it must be right

)) from however many of the people you love) must love you enough to heir you their trees. So you fall into a special category for me, post welcomed to Crazy, already a member, already welcome!
I was having a morning where I followed the "if you don't have anything good to say, say something anyway cuz it's a bump for others to see the thread" kinda morning.
I put the appropriate "he/she" in as a nod to this respect and the joke turned into "about bonsai" to rag on all the dumbass people who need for everything here to "be about bonsai", even if they really just want everything to be about them.
Trying to point out the stupidity of "everything should be about bonsai", cuz some ignorant shit can come out of that concept!
I didn't mean to make that statement at your expense. Please stick with us!
Regards.
Sorce