Here are some tips from growing these over the last 15 years. Several others here have very nice wisteria that may weigh in as well.
1. Wisteria is a vine, so upright styles require a taller trunk, which may give the overall appearance of an upright tree.
2. Here is my seasonal work on a wisteria:
Winter: Wire to spread out flower buds; prune only the shoots you KNOW aren't flower buds, or don't need. Flower buds are bigger, rounded, and
usually on shorter shoots, not runners.
Spring: Prune back hard just after flowering (April); this is the only time of year to prune while you're learning their tendencies.
Summer: Move it out of the way, partial shade. Set it in a tub of water for the month of August, and pinch out some of the long runners.
Fall: Feed with a no-nitrogen fertilizer. Do not prune.
3. I avoid repotting at all costs, and use very bad soil; including (
) sand from the kids' sandbox, bark, and old recycled soil. They are thirsty trees, and seem to flower better with heavy soil, & no fertilizer. I'll go 4-5 years between transplanting.
4. The deadwood is punky, soft, susceptible to mold/mildew, but seems to be persistent. All of my wisteria have developed some deadwood over time, but I'm not crazy about it in the design.
5. If your space is limited, wisteria have a very low return for the amount of space they require on a bench. They are incredible for about 3 weeks a year, then they're like Captain Caveman for the rest of the year. I have to pull runners off the fence every few weeks.
Overall, they're very easy trees to grow, but they just don't look good for 48 weeks out of the year, and aren't trained in the same manner as most other trees. Don't expect to develop dense ramification, or to show it in any month but April. And whatever you do, don't take good care of it! Good soil, fertilizer, light, attention, and regular pinching makes for a very complacent tree.
Hopefully this helps, and I look forward to posts by others with wisteria experience. To me, they're a whole different animal.
Also, welcome to the forum...you should add a general geographic area & USDA zone to your profile so we have a general idea of your growing climate. Some points above assume you live somewhere in the SE where wisteria grow in the wild.
Brian