Let me explain it in an easier term and perhaps we will see if we are going in the right direction...
The last photo I posted up of your tree and commented on has the trunk going from left to right, with a slight bend down, towards the end.
So, if a trunk bends to the right, bending it further to the right in the same direction, is going to be easy. If your trunk bends down, bending it further down in the same direction, is going to be easy. Bending in any other direction is going to be hard.
In this photo... the first bend you placed was down. Correct? But, in what direction?
It was against the direction of what the tree is naturally already doing, which was to the right. The bend you created, in this photo, was towards the viewer. Correct? This action goes against how the tree is already naturally growing and will always be a more difficult bend because of this.
What I am saying is that next time try bending first down in direction of how the tree is naturally already going. To change it's direction, back to the left, seeing this is where you want to go... while bending down, rotate your hand to the left. This will cause the branch to dive down much easier and more fluid then a bend down first, and then a bend to the left, and in all actuality, you will find you are able to do a much more severe bend.
If you have wired it, you will want your coils to run in the same direction... as you wire, if you are right handed... you will wrap the wire towards your left hand. So when you twist to the left, you twist in the same direction.